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ASTROLOGY OF MEETING and GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER
About the starting point for relationships in the - progressed - chart
People meet or get to know each other at the moment that they share the same kind of situation or period in their life. Both partners are at the same time searching for hapiness or are sharing a good or bad moment and that 'connects' them. At least, you would think so when you see their progressed charts!
Sometimes they meet too soon. Sometimes that meeting is wrong for both of them. For example when they share a nasty period or difficult aspects in the natal chart. Read all about it here, with examples of the interaction between (progressed) charts: examples of shared hapiness, preleminary meetings and meetings with bad prospects. Those examples show that interactions and relationships need to come from both sides to have any effect. And that astrology might tell you WHAT is the time.
CAMILLA AND CHARLES
In June 1971, during a polo match, Camilla and Charles met for the first time. She had progressed Venus conjunct natal Saturn and semi square progressed Uranus. He had no special progressions at all. Her progressed ascendant is at the time exactly sesqui square his progressed Jupiter.
Sometimes people meet without starting a relationship, yet. A semi square with Venus describes a senseless love. Bernadette Brady refers to semi squares as a 'frustrating not'. Sesqui squares should bring advantages in a later stade! Aparently Charles and Camlla had to marry someone else, first. It is not only for the sort of aspectation that love was not answered at the time. Saturn and Uranus together refer to limitations of freedom and independency. Venus with Uranus often points at falling in love. Saturn is the planet of responsibilities, status and 'timing'. Shall we see this as 'untimy love'?
FATE
1. People meet in times of astrological similarities. Often they share similar aspects in the natal chart. Like Joran van der Sloot. and the lost American girl, Nataly Holloway. Her Mars is afflicting Pluto in her birth chart. Her Mars squares Joran's Pluto. And her Venus squares his Mars.
>Sometimes such meetings turn into a drama. Venus and Mars added with Mars with Pluto introduces a sexual component as the link between them. Mars with Pluto sometimes refers to using violence or force. We don't know what happened, but we do know there was sexual attraction involved.
2. John F. Kennedy and Jaqueline Bouvier have a composite chart with Sun, Moon and Pluto square Saturn. Jaqueline has Venus (ruler of the 7th house of partnership) in the eight house of endings and opposed to Saturn (divorce or departure, leaving a lover, a marriage ending). John F. Kennedy has five positions in the eight house of death.
Sometimes people seem to get related to fulfill each others astrological aspects...
3. CANNOT DO WITHOUT...
People that share the same aspect are in a way 'convicted to each other'. In a relationship they cannot do without each other, even not if they make each other's life miserable. I know of a couple with Sun conjunct Pluto that had a life long struggle for power until death stopped it. These aspects with Pluto seem to make it difficult to end a hard relationship. Both are fanatics, but go for the 'all or nothing' and possibly the challenging interaction keeps them going.
Sometimes people stay together to share the same fate, for example a hard life. Or they stick together because the experience of shared problems that tightened their relationship.
4. PERIODS OF SHARED FATE
Sometimes people come toghether and share their lifes for just a short period of time. For example: sharing a crisis in someone's life and being very involved. This happened to me with transit Pluto conjunct a person's progressed Sun and my natal Sun. But there are more examples:
The trappist monks who were murdered (as a group, all together) by Algerian moslim rebels in 1993 shared (all of them!) progressive aspects indicating violance in the same period of time. Read more about that fenonema in the article about the monks.
I learned from that that sometimes people develope relationships that in the long term end up in a shared 'fate', at the very moment that all of the people involved share the same sort of progressions.
5. LOVE
Of course,there are nice periods to share as well. What about the joyfull aspects a couple can have around the time of marriage or giving birth? Or when they are most satisfied with the relationship? Those periods we find in the aspect made with Saturn (stability), Venus (pleasure) and Jupiter (satisfaction). Falling in love in a period of aspects with Uranus is easy. And mostly it is with a contraversial perion, or else: why rebel (Uranus)? If the other person shares Uranus aspects with you you might expect trouble with family and friends due to the relationship.
For me there is no doubt about it that the events (like falling in love or getting married, having children or breaking up) always go along with strong interaction between the charts of the couple. When I met my husband he had the progressed Sun in a fresh new sign, trine Uranus. I had the progressed Sun opposed to Uranus. That is a shared progressed aspect. We were in the same mood and ready for something new and exciting:). On the day we met my progressed Mars trined his Sun and squared his Moon, with only a few minutes of orb. And you will not believe it: his progressed Saturn was conjunct my descendant and his progressed Jupiter conjunct my progressed Chiron. I could go on forever finding the matches between our progressed and natal charts on crucial moments of our relationship. On the day we married his progressed Mercury was on my progressed descendant and my Sun was conjunct my natal Mercury, while his Sun trined my ascendant and my Venus trined his descendant. Is not astrology logical?
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